Comments on: 5 Ways angry parents can affect the adult you grow into https://stressandanxietycoach.com/5-ways-angry-parents-can-affect-the-adult-you-grow-into/ Become the happiest version of you Wed, 25 Feb 2026 19:38:37 +0000 hourly 1 By: Julia Lambert https://stressandanxietycoach.com/5-ways-angry-parents-can-affect-the-adult-you-grow-into/#comment-2870 Wed, 25 Feb 2026 19:38:37 +0000 https://stressandanxietycoach.com/?p=4880#comment-2870 This is the best and most thoughtful description of the results of angry parenting I have ever read. I grew up with a father who used to have explosive anger. He would rant and rave and had to control everything and everyone. My mother taught me to work on eggshells and live in a way that would make no one angry. I used to get so upset as a child that I would throw up. I wasn’t allowed to ever express anger. As a result, it took me well into adulthood to learn what dysregulation was and how to begin to begin regulating my anger.

I recently watched a video on You Tube that was a revelation to me. It was about why the Japanese raised well-adjusted, courteous children. Their approach to child wearing is completely different. They never fight or raise their voices around their kids. They sympathize with their children’s discomfort in a given trying situation and ask them to be strong, reminding them the feeling is temporary. They assure their children that they have their backs and will protect them. They never devalue or mock the child. They ask them to be respectful of the community around them, as the community will do the same for them. What a difference.

]]> By: Anael https://stressandanxietycoach.com/5-ways-angry-parents-can-affect-the-adult-you-grow-into/#comment-2699 Sat, 03 Jan 2026 17:58:57 +0000 https://stressandanxietycoach.com/?p=4880#comment-2699 Thank you so much for your incredible content, I found it in a moment of need and will be using your techniques for the rest of my life.

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